“You Must Apologize”: Nigerian Woman Confronts Alleged Childhood Molester in Viral Facebook Post

“You Must Apologize”: Nigerian Woman Confronts Alleged Childhood Molester in Viral Facebook Post

A Nigerian woman, Bonita Bislam, took to Facebook to publicly accuse a woman named Lydia Tizhe of allegedly sexually abusing her and other children over two decades ago while they lived at the Specialist Hospital quarters in Yola, formerly General Hospital Yola.

In a deeply emotional post, Bonita detailed how their shared past as children of healthcare workers placed them in close proximity — a reality that allegedly allowed Lydia, an older neighbor at the time, to exploit moments when their parents were away on shift.

“We would go to their house and she would force us to suck her breast and do some things I still shiver talking about,” Bonita wrote. “If we didn’t comply, she would beat us and put us inside the wardrobe.”

Miss Bonita B(victim)

Bonita explained that her father was a theatre nurse who worked full-time during the day, while her mother, also a nurse, was on rotating shifts. According to her, Lydia understood these schedules and used them to target the children when they were unsupervised.

She expressed that the trauma from these incidents left lasting scars on her psyche, including a crippling fear of darkness that still affects her today. Now 36 years old, Bonita says she has “conquered her shame” and is determined to speak out — not just for herself but for all the other alleged victims.

“All of us that you abused — we’re your karma now, and I’m championing the cause,” she declared. “You must apologize, and you will if God exists.”

She added that Lydia, through her husband, now claims not to know her, a response Bonita described as denial and avoidance:

“she said she doesn’t know me according to her husband after I spoke with him. This matter go long,” she wrote. “Lydia Tizhe, you must apologize to us. Your husband and kids — I don’t have anything against them.

At the moment, there is no concrete evidence available to confirm or deny Bonita’s claims, and the public remains divided — with some fully believing her story and others questioning the motive or timing of her revelation. Under the post she shared on April 6 on her Facebook page, some commenters argued that if Bonita truly wants justice, she should take the matter to court instead of bringing it to social media. A few even accused her of simply trying to tarnish Lydia Tizhe’s image rather than seeking legal redress.Whether the alleged abuse truly happened as described or not, the situation remains as stated until Lydia Tizhe herself comes forward to speak her truth. For now, this is the matter .

Mrs Lydia Tizhe (Suspect)